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Most men think they are doing their women a favour by jumping on them anytime they have an erection, humping around and exhausting themselves, roll over and snore away.

There is no woman who loves this wham-bam-tahnk-you-maam cex and though they may not complain, they would bee seething deep down, wishing you had not even started it.

There are some deep cex secrets women wish their men knew and believe me, your cex life and overall relationship would be happy for it.

Try these seven secrets and see how your wife responds to your advances.

 

A good talk is a great aphrodisiac

Many women find talk a great turn-on. For them, talking and feeling loved are very important. Good conversation during walks or while the couple is relaxing can be a great aphrodisiac. A man could tell his woman how much he loves her, which acts as a reassurance that he is with her mentally during those intimate moments.

 

Many women are anxious about their looks

For a couple that has been together for long, sometimes it is natural that women may feel that their partner may find them less alluring. Because of this, some women undress only under the cover of darkness. Caring men can sense such anxieties. There is no need to lie and say she’s gorgeous if she isn’t, nor is there a need to say that she is not attractive anymore. One can always appreciate and praise what you do find attractive.

 

For a woman cex isn’t separate from rest of her life

On the other hand, men tend to compartmentalise, feeling that stressful aspects of life can be parked mentally and separated from cexual activity. Women need good feelings and experiences during the day to have satisfying cex.

How her lover treats her out of bed, greatly influences her response in bed. Inattentiveness, harsh language, rude tones, hurtful words, abuses, and criticism can make it difficult for a woman to get involved, feel enthusiastic and be passionate during cex.

 

An orgasm is not a necessity

Many men feel that a good lover is one who can bring his woman to orgasm every time. It is great to have such moments, but know that they aren’t always essential. Many women feel pressure from partners and even from themselves to reah an orgasm. Sometimes, instead of having orgasms, women prefer to engage in just foreplay.

 

Cex need not be a serious act

Playfulness is a great quality. Many men are far too serious about cex. They forget to laugh, be romantically mischievous, have fun. Playfulness and light-heartedness can make intimate moments enjoyable and relaxing. This takes performance pressure off from both partners.

 

Women cherish non-cexual touching and tenderness

Women love romance, cuddling, hand-holding and kissing. But many women complain that their men never do this except during foreplay. A woman should make her man realise the joy of touching. As you give him a relaxing massage and stroke his face and hair tenderly, he starts experiencing the joy of this kind of non-cexual touching. Tell your man what makes you feel loved and wanted.

 

Warm attention after cex is important

A woman’s need for tender moments goes beyond the actual lovemaking. Some women complain that men fall asleep immediately after the act. It is true that when a man is having cex, his endorphin level is very high.

Almost immediately after ejaculation, he goes through a refractory phase where he loses his erection and all his systems gear down. In females this phase happens gradually.

However, if you don’t like him falling asleep immediately, tell him without putting him down. Alternatively, let him sleep in your arms for a few minutes and gently wake him up afterwards.